The girls in a preparatory school class in one of the schools disagreed on the topic of dealing between genders..Is "good intention" enough in it? Or is there a need for Shariah regulations? #VALUE! - "On what basis, young and old?...The correct question: Expensive or not expensive..Accountable or not accountable". #VALUE! - "On what scale? By your customs and not by the scale of Shariah"? #VALUE! - The discussion heated up..The educational counselor knew about it...She entered the class..Greeted the girls, did not tell them the reason for coming, and asked them: (Is this table small or large?) - One girl said: Small...The other replied: No, large...The third said: No, medium. - The counselor: Do you see how you differed?! What is required in this case, girls? - One of them replied: Definition of the meaning of small and large. - Excellent..And what after the definition? - A ruler to measure and compare with. - You are correct...The same thing in everything in our lives..We will continue to differ if there is no reference and a ruler to measure with. In your opinion, girls, what is the ruler we must measure with? #VALUE! - Okay, and if customs change? The girl remained silent. - Another replied: "What our fathers do" Okay, and if the fathers differ just as you differ? The other remained silent. #VALUE! - Are all people's minds the same? #VALUE! - Okay, whose mind do we refer to? The third remained silent. #VALUE! - Is it logical for you that what is logical for you is logical for everyone? - No..And the fourth remained silent. - Also, girls, when you say: customs, our families, the mind, logic...Does all of this guarantee us a share of the truth? - The girls remained silent, thinking. - Finally, the one described as "too old" said: "Shariah" - The counselor: You are correct..Shariah. Girls, we are Muslims...Do you know what it means to be Muslims? It means we submit all our affairs to Allah...Allah, the Most High, says: (And it is not for a believing man or a believing woman, when Allah and His Messenger have decided a matter, that they should have any choice in their affair).. And He says: (And if you disagree over anything, refer it to Allah and the Messenger, if you should believe in Allah and the Day of the Hereafter. That is best and best in result). It is possible, my beloved, that one of us may make a mistake and not adhere to Shariah at one of the times..But we must be clear at that moment that we are wrong and continue to admit that the ruling of Shariah is correct." May Allah bless this noble counselor and increase her likes..For they are few, unfortunately! The most important thing to teach your son and daughter: The reference of Shariah and that it is the ruler.