Educators emphasize the necessity of praising your son's or daughter's appearance. For this enhances his view of himsel…

Educators emphasize the necessity of praising your son's or daughter's appearance. For this enhances his view of himself and his acceptance of it and makes him love himself. And no matter what his or her appearance, he is indeed beautiful and handsome, according to the saying of the Most High: (And formed you and perfected your forms). Teach them that they are beautiful as they are, and not to compare themselves with those of hollow appearances from singing and acting celebrities, who take care of their outer shell without their insides and their hearts.

At the same time, do not be excessive in talking about your son's or daughter's beauty...because that teaches him that appearance is the criterion, it is the measure of excellence. So he becomes excessive in caring about it.

This is in addition to the mistake of mothers especially in being excessive in talking about the beauty of this or that person other than their children...so you see her talking with her friend or relative in front of her children about the beauty of so-and-so and so-and-so....which builds in the children that this is the criterion of distinction, and that their attention should be focused on it, and from this psychological complexes begin and non-acceptance of self, even resentment of Allah's decree sometimes! If the boy or girl sees that his or her appearance is not beautiful.

My son/my daughter: You are handsome and you are beautiful...do not compare with others, and take care of your health and maintain your appearance, and remember: (Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you).