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Peace be upon you and God’s mercy. Do you remember the story of gender theory and the “Reimer” family? How the parents entrusted their two sons, Bruce and Brian, to the depraved John Money, who oversaw the removal of Bruce’s organs and their disposal in the trash, tormented the parents for more than a decade, and subjected them to sexual experiments to prove his satanic theories about gender—now being imposed on us with increasing speed as scientific fact?
Do you remember the tragic end of the two victimized brothers? Many of you have asked: How could the parents have entrusted their sons to this criminal to do all this to them? Where was the parents’ judgment? How did they persist in this painful charade for more than a decade when failure was evident from the start?
This episode is not a story for entertainment, my brothers and sisters. It contains three lessons that every one of us needs about the steps of Satan. Stay with us.
Over time, it became increasingly clear that Money’s experiment was a failure and unethical. Yet the mother turned a blind eye to it. Why? Because admitting it would mean she had made a mistake in entrusting her son to Dr. Money—and she refused to admit that mistake because the consequences of such an admission were too heavy, and the alternative was painful. She said as much in her interview: she did not want to regret it.
The longer time passed, the greater her error became, and the greater the regret would be if she faced the truth. So she continued to lie about having made a mistake. In fact, she even entrusted her other son, Brian, to the criminal Money, to destroy his psyche alongside Bruce’s in the sexual role-playing experiments Money conducted. This is the first trap of the devils among jinn and humans: exploiting your refusal to acknowledge error.
Umar ibn al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him, wrote to Abu Musa al-Ash‘ari, may God be pleased with him, when he appointed him as judge over Yemen. He said:
“Do not let your past ruling prevent you from revisiting a case in which you reconsidered your position and were guided to what is right. For truth is eternal and cannot be invalidated by anything. Revisiting the truth is better than persisting in falsehood.”
Truth is eternal and unchanging. It cannot be invalidated by so-called scientific research, nor by John Money, nor by burying your head in the sand and denying the truth. In the end, the mother did admit her mistake—but only after she had destroyed her sons’ psyches. Had she admitted it from the first day, when Bruce’s feminine clothes were cut off, the harm would have been far smaller.
Now let us look more broadly at the Reimer family tragedy within the context of the scientific community. How did Money’s vile gender lie become accepted as truth through the same entry point: refusal to acknowledge error?
Over the twenty-five years between Money’s publication of his forged results about Bruce and Bruce’s revelation of the truth and exposure of Money’s lies, Money’s lie had taken root and grown like cancer. During this period, tens of thousands of people—or perhaps more—had made the gender lie their livelihood: a source of income, status, credentials, and positions.
Consider the social researchers, behavioral scientists, psychologists, and biologists who built their careers, lectures, master’s degrees, and doctorates on the lie of “gender.” Tens of thousands of gender-reassignment surgeries were performed, followed by hormone treatments and psychological therapy to adapt to the new sex. All of this lined the pockets of those who benefited.
And the cornerstone of their entire enterprise was Money’s lie. Vile experiments were conducted under the guise of “scientific experiments” in the name of sexology. Researchers engaged in acts that satisfied their satanic desires while lining their pockets with both material and moral profit—all built on the lies of degenerates like Alfred Kinsey and John Money.
Imagine approaching one of these people and telling them: “Everything you have built your social standing, credentials, and reputation upon is a lie from the likes of Kinsey and Money. The house you are still paying off to the bank, your car, your professor or doctor title, your conference trips, your savings from teaching or surgeries or books you published on gender—it all stems from a lie. You must admit it is false, even if it means losing all your privileges and being cast into the street.” Do you think they would admit it? Of course not. Instead, they would fight with all their might to defend “gender,” and to label you—whoever you are—as a fundamentalist, obscurantist, reactionary, extremist, backward, fanatical, ignorant enemy of science and progress.
My brothers and sisters, if we sometimes see Muslims who are shown that a post or video they shared is based on error and they are convinced of it, they find it easy to delete the post or video after it has garnered thousands or millions of views. But what about these masses who do not believe in God or the Last Day, or who follow a corrupted religion that does not deter them from continuing to lie?
These people cannot back down. The cost of withdrawal is far too high—materially and morally—and the scandal would be deafening. Therefore, the gender lie must remain “truth” in their eyes, and they must defend it. This is exactly what we explained in the episode “Who Supports the Continuation of Evolution Theory?” regarding scientists whose careers and social standing are built on the myth of evolution.
My brothers and sisters, the second lesson: do not be deceived by credentials and titles if they contradict clear reason and innate nature. Preserve the soundness of your mind and your innate nature by holding fast to your religion and piety toward your Lord.
O you who believe, if you are mindful of God, He will give you a way to distinguish between right and wrong.
While the one who is disobedient and does not fear God will have a shaky personality, uncertain of his own mind and innate nature. He becomes easy prey for the devils among jinn and humans.
The same traits the mother described about Money are what dazzle those infatuated with the myth of evolution—even though it is the stupidest joke in history: that life arose by random chance. Yet you see young people whose minds have been rented out believing it because these proponents are charismatic, possess strong personalities, and speak with great confidence. None of this makes falsehood truth or truth falsehood. And may God curse intelligence without faith.
Dear respected audience, Bruce and Brian’s parents lacked a compass; they had no fixed reference in the preserved divine revelation. For them, it was not an absolute truth that God created people from male and female for a purpose, nor that He instilled in each the psychological makeup and innate dispositions suited to them. Thus, it was easy for Satan, the deceiver, to mislead them.
As a Muslim, the beginning of deviation is when you loosen your grip on the rope of divine revelation, allowing claims of relative truth to deceive you and making you prey to Satan. God the Exalted says:
"O mankind, indeed We have created you from male and female." (Quran 49:13)
And He says: "And that He created the two mates—the male and female." (Quran 53:45)
And He says: "And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy." (Quran 30:21)
And He says: "And He created everything and proportioned it with precise determination." (Quran 25:2)
Everything is created with wisdom and measured precisely—nothing is in vain, nor by chance. There is no female trapped in the wrong body, nor a male trapped in the wrong body. There are absolute truths you must believe in and never abandon.
By the way, when we blur or distort the images of immodestly dressed women in our segments, some may mock us, but we do not care. What concerns us are the consequences of even slightly loosening our grip on the rope of divine revelation. God the Exalted says:
"And hold firmly to the rope of Allah all together and do not become divided." (Quran 3:103)
Our Prophet peace be upon him said: "I have left among you something that will never lead you astray if you hold fast to it: the Book of Allah."
Abu Bakr may God be pleased with him said: "I will not abandon anything the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him practiced except that I practice it myself. And I fear that if I abandon anything from his command, I may go astray."
We too fear going astray. Look at the ends of those who deviate—how wretched they are! Lesson Three is to thank God for preserving the Quran and Sunnah for you, to hold fast to them, and to cling to them with your very teeth.
A very important question remains: How can the promoters of this intellectual waste (gender ideology) spread it among people despite all the harm it has caused? We will answer this in the next episode, God willing. So stay tuned.
Peace be upon you and God’s mercy.