The phenomenon of taking it easy when dealing with a "brother in faith"
We often observe a regrettable phenomenon in our interactions. While some people demonstrate the utmost discipline, professionalism, and strict adherence to appointments when dealing with a foreigner or a non-religious official, a dramatic shift occurs the moment the other party is a "brother in faith."
In this case, the person unconsciously slips into what can be called a "pattern of taking it easy" or a state of laxity. Their productivity declines, they are late for appointments, leave messages unanswered for days, promise to complete a task, and then disappear.
Why does this contradiction occur?
Why does this contradiction occur? I fear it often stems from an underlying feeling of inadequacy toward the stranger—especially the foreigner—which drives the person to prove their worth in front of them. Conversely, the concept of brotherhood is misused, as Muslims are expected to tolerate this negligence and indifference under the guise of "overlooking" and forgiveness.
Dealing with your Muslim brother in this lax manner does not reflect the strength of the relationship. Instead, it sends a message of disinterest and diminishes the value of our shared Islamic identity.
The true concept of brotherhood and commitment
True brotherhood requires excellence and fulfilling promises—it does not justify exploiting the bond to excuse chaos and indifference. Therefore, if your idea of brotherhood means wasting my time, delaying my rights, and expecting me to forgive every shortcoming under the banner of "overlooking," then do not treat me as a brother in faith... I beg you! Treat me as you would a stranger: with respect, clarity, and commitment.
Let us correct this flaw. Respecting our brothers is the true reflection of our respect for our Islamic identity.
Peace.