From the centrality of obeying Allah in a Muslim's life, the Muslim family must be established on implementing Allah's …
From the centrality of obeying Allah in a Muslim's life, the Muslim family must be established on implementing Allah's rulings and adhering to His commands. Allah says: (And if he has divorced her [for the third time], then she is not lawful to him afterward until [after] she marries a husband other than him. And if the latter husband divorces her [or dies], there is no blame upon the woman and her former husband for returning to each other if they think that they can keep [within] the limits of Allah), meaning for the woman to return to her first husband who divorced her with major irrevocable divorce if the second husband divorces her. What's the condition for establishing the family anew? That they see they're capable of establishing the marriage on the basis of obeying Allah, so the wife performs her husband's right according to Allah's command and he performs her right according to Allah's command, and in their marriage is assistance for each of them in performing Allah's right.
And conversely, Allah says: (But if you fear that they will not keep [within] the limits of Allah, then there is no blame upon either of them concerning that by which she ransoms herself), so the wife has the right to divorce herself from her husband if she fears that staying with him exposes her to violating Allah's commands.
This is a very important meaning for the young man and woman to bring forth before embarking on marriage: that they're establishing an institution built on cooperation in obeying Allah...
And very important for those who strive to solve family problems to bring forth, and all their concern is that "the house not be destroyed" by separation, while the spouses' staying together may be an occasion for disobeying Allah, and their separation with kindness more likely for them to establish Allah's limits.
Establishing Shari'ah is not only at the state level, but at the individual and family level.
(And those are the limits of Allah; He makes them clear to a people who know).