-Some parents face questions and objections from their children like: -"Why don't we attend such-and-such concerts?" -"…

-Some parents face questions and objections from their children like:

-"Why don't we attend such-and-such concerts?" -"Why don't we go to such-and-such trips?"... -"I don't like this (modest) clothing"... -And others..

It occurs to the father or mother to seek help from an acquaintance to convince the son or daughter, but it's hard for them and they say to themselves: "I'm someone people turn to and see as a role model," "Is it reasonable to appear as someone who convinces others while my own children need someone to convince them?!"..

This is sensitivity in the wrong place, my friend! It's not shameful to seek help from others, for children often need not just abstract conviction, but the feeling that there are others who share these convictions with them...

No matter how much you instill in them the concept of "you are a group upon truth even if you're alone as long as you follow evidence," they need companionship, to break in them the feeling of alienation...indeed, even adults need this comfort..

Therefore, a word from a young boy or girl may be more influential on your son or daughter in some matter than your own words, not due to a defect in you or your argument or your credibility with your children, but because they need this companionship and the feeling that there are people like them. And from here comes the importance of providing a good social environment for our families and children.